Do you know anyone who started college with the intention to fail or drop out? Do you yourself ever recall starting a new job and on day one tell yourself “I’m going to fail miserably at this company.” ? Or better yet, have you ever entered into an exlusive/romantic relationship with someone with the thoughts of “I hope this ends in tragedy and heartache.” ?
The answer to these questions are obvious. Of course not! Many have the INTENTIONS of winning and succeeding, however, why is it that so many people fall into this abyss called “average”? If average is your goal in life, then there’s no point in reading further… (btw AVERAGE IS BORING. That’s why it’s called, “Average.” #justsayin)
The best way to really accomplish your goals, is to maintain a “winners mindset.” What does that mean? PRETTY SIMPLE. It means you never allow that of a loser’s mindset to program the way you think. You will notice that people who are high achievers in life, always believe that they’re going to win. They step into every situation with confidence, knowing that they have what it takes to get the job done. It doesn’t mean they aren’t humble, it means they have overwhelming belief in themselves.
Some might ask themselves “Is it really that simple?” , or “what if I don’t have the tools and resources necessary to make it happen or to win in all situations?” … well that right there is the wrong way to think. That is the first step to gaining a winning mindset, is to eliminate that kind of thinking. For example, problems are no longer “Problems”… they are merely “Challenges” Challenges are something you can overcome. “Problems” seem like a never ending mess. Do you see the mental difference?
Here is another example: “Those are too expensive.” …. NO, they aren’t. Get that thinking out of your head. Instead try thinking “I will have those soon, my income is continually growing and that is actually not expensive. Expensive is a relative term”
In that example, a devil’s advocate approach might say “well, I’m unemployed right now, how can I tell myself that my income is going up??” Whether you know it or not, the way you think guides your actions subconsciously. If you get your thinking right, you will find itself manifesting in reality.
The best part is, when you already see yourself as a success and high level achiever, none of this comes as a surprise to you. If you have a goal to make a certain amount of money for example, and you tell yourself everyday that you’ve already achieved it, that it’s on it’s way, and that it’s not a big deal… then essentially you’ve trained yourself to believe it and therefore once it’s achieved physically, your mind will say “it’s about time, what took me so long?”, NOT “holy crap look how much im making!!”
Never tell yourself something is hard…because it’s not. Your MIND has a preconcieved notion of what “difficult” is, so why would you put that barrier on yourself? Get your mind right, and make a decision to start winning today.